LOADING.......In a process of becoming perfect woman

I am born to be judged. I am told I should not speak with a guy. I am told I should not laugh out loud. I am restricted to be back to home before sunset. I am asked not wear short skirts. I am always bound to take permission to go out. I am told not to to raise my voice. I am told I have to sacrifice my goals for my family. I am told I have to get married by this age. I am told that these all defines my CHARACTER and they expect me to be PERFECT. 

I am a WOMAN, In the process of becoming a PERFECT WOMAN.

We are in 21st century, But ladies, How many of you are comfortable wearing a short dress and travel in public transport? I bet your answer would be NO. NOT AT ALL.Why? Those nasty comments, gossiping behind you, sarcastic smile, dirty looks....It makes us very uncomfortable isn’t it? This society have a certain set of rules ONLY FOR  WOMEN. It defines how you should be to be a PERFECT WOMAN. How easily our character gets judged if we are with a group of men. How we are asked to dress properly. Haven’t we hear more often , You are woman you have to be more careful! . Every minute we hear how we should be. Thousands of opinion trying to make us perfect. The irony is when I search for so called ‘PERFECT’ human being,  I couldn’t find a single person in this whole world.

Are we really required to be within these limits?  Cross the boundaries - follow dreams. Let the same hand which pointed at you and said “This is not a women job”  CLAP for you. Instead of trying to become perfect woman let us flaunt our imperfections with a pride and show them it’s not how a women should be, It’s how the society mindset should be.

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