How can one be happy?

It’s a natural tendency of human to blame others when one endup in a bad situation. “He is the reason for my failure”. “This happened because of her”. “This was his plan, so i ended up here”. Argh! We keep on complaining about others throughout our life!.We get a peace of mind by thinking whatsoever happened is because of other person. The very same reason upsets us, Increases the hate and negative thoughts towards that person. We forget to think what could have been wrong from our end.

Let’s give a thought, May be that person is wrong/did wrong, But, What  is bothering you, “Your thoughts” . Why so much of hate ? That person didn’t meet “Your expectation“.Why are you upset?  something didn’t go as per “Your  plan”. So it’s  basically  “YOU” .

Instead of wasting our energy on negative thoughts, Spending our whole life in hating them, If we learn to accept the fact and move on by controlling our emotions. We can be happy, What do you think?

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